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Behaviour

Children may engage in one or more problem behaviours from time to time. Factors to consider in determining whether the behaviour is truly of concern include:
  • Injuring themselves or others
  • Behaving is a manner that present immediate risk to themselves or others
  • Frequency and severity of the behaviour
  • Number of problematic behaviours that are occurring at one time
  • Significant change in the child’s behaviour

If the child presents any of the following behaviours, consider this a red flag:

Self-injurious Behaviour

  • Bites self; slaps self; grabs at self
  • Picks at skin; sucks excessively on skin/bangs head on surfaces
  • Eats inedibles
  • Intentional vomiting (when not ill)
  • Intentional vomiting (when not ill)
  • Potentially harmful risk taking (e.g. running into traffic, setting fires)
  • High pain tolerance

Aggression

  • Temper tantrums; excessive anger, threats
  • Hits; kicks; bites; scratches others; pulls hair
  • Bangs, slams objects; property damage
  • Cruelty to animals
  • Hurting those less able/bullies others

Social Behaviour

  • Difficulty paying attention/hyperactive; overly impulsive
  • Screams; cries excessively; swears; severe tantrums
  • Hoarding; stealing
  • No friends; socially isolated; will not make eye or other contact; withdrawn
  • Anxious; fearful/extreme shyness; agitated
  • Compulsive behaviour in public; undressing in public
  • Touches self or others in inappropriate ways; precocious knowledge of a sexual nature
  • Flat affect, inappropriate emotions, unpredictable angry outburst, disrespect or striking female teachers are examples of post trauma red flags for children who have witnessed violence
  • Narrow range of interests that he/she engages in repetitively
  • Insists on maintaining sameness in routines, activities, clothing, etc

Non-compliance

  • Oppositional behaviour
  • Running away
  • Resists assistance that is appropriate to age (ie: holding hands to cross the road)

Life Skills

  • Deficits in expected functional behaviours (e.g. eating, toileting, dressing, poor play skills)
  • Regression; loss of skills; refusal to eat; sleep disturbances
  • Difficulty managing transitions/routine changes

Self-Stimulatory Behaviour

  • Hand-flapping; hand wringing; rocking; swaying
  • Repetitious twirling; repetitive object manipulation
  • Unusual sensory interest – visually squinting or looking at things out of the corner of eye; smelling; licking; mouthing objects, etc

If there are social-emotional concerns, advise the parent to contact Child & Youth Mental Health at phone:  851-3600, Children’s Therapy & Family Resource Centre at 371-4100, or the Infant Development Program at phone 371-4140.